I don't think it's random they're doing it right out of the gate to women who don't know them well enough to check them."In her experience, Amanda says, "It's [often] not worth taking the chance" of calling men out in situations like Sarah's.
It's a tense, necessary exchange that will hit home for anyone who's experienced culture clash.When Sarah tells John she enjoys singing jazz, he asks if he can hear some.She takes a sip of her wine, presumably to loosen up before singing, and John jokes, "Yeah, you don't want anything in your throat, right? Sarah, visibly uncomfortable, then does something awesome: She gets up and leaves midway through the date."I have a little bit of a headache, and I do have an early-morning meeting with a client, so thank you so much for coming out and meeting me," she says."It's been a very interesting evening, but I think I might skedoodle, if that's cool."Unfortunately, men behaving inappropriately within minutes of a first date is a reality many, women face.