(which isn't that great but man, that was, like, the dream of the '90s) or because I was obsessed with coding as a teen (shut up, I was so cool, you guys) or because I work too much or because I'm hardly ever at bars unless I'm performing and even then, when someone hits on me it's like throwing flirtation into the wind and hoping it lands somewhere near my brain. Seriously, if I had a dime for every time a friend told me, "Lane, they were hitting on you!!!
" or even, "Lane, they're totally in love with you and have been for over eight years," I'd have at least 70 cents, maybe 90.
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Let's accept compliments with grace and do not try to play down any compliments. Most women have a list of qualities that they seek in potential mates; in the same way, most men also have a list of qualities that they expect from their potential mates.
Without lowering your standards, you have to learn to be realistic and project yourself as an ideal mate.
If the emotions peak too early, then the thrill might be lost from the relationship.
Give your emotions time to catch up with whatever attraction you might be feeling.